Tips for Coaching Youth Soccer

Tips for Coaching Youth Soccer

If you’re a first-time coach, coaching youth soccer can be a challenging experience. However, it can also be incredibly rewarding.

Personally, my best and most impactful mentors were the coaches I had when I was younger. They were able to connect with the kids, make difficult things fun, and give sound advice. Many of the lessons they taught have stuck with me today.

More recently, looking back on my coaching days, I had so much fun being part of a player’s development. It was fulfilling to me to watch them grow as a person and player. 

Coaching youth soccer provides us with the opportunity to help young players develop their skills, build their confidence, and learn important life lessons. Whether you’re a seasoned coach or new to the game, there are several tips you can follow to make your coaching experience a successful one.

In today’s article, we will highlight the best tips for coaching youth soccer.

Coaching Fundamentals

As a coach, you are responsible for teaching your players the fundamentals of the game, while also motivating and communicating with them effectively. Here are some coaching fundamentals to keep in mind:


Effective communication is key to any successful team, and it starts with the coach.

As a coach, you need to be able to clearly communicate your expectations to your players, as well as provide feedback and constructive criticism. Make sure you speak to your players in a positive and encouraging manner and always be open to their questions and concerns.

Communication is not just about talking, it’s also about listening. Take the time to listen to your players and get to know them as individuals. This will help you understand their strengths and weaknesses, as well as their motivations and goals.


Motivating your players is another important aspect of coaching soccer. Every player is different, and what motivates one player may not work for another. Some players are motivated by competition, while others are motivated by personal improvement or team bonding.

One way to motivate your players is to create a positive team culture. Encourage your players to support and encourage each other, and foster a sense of teamwork and camaraderie. This will help your players feel more invested in the team’s success and more motivated to work hard and improve their skills.

Also, reward players based on performance and not because you are scarred by what their parents will say. This is your team, give your player more motivation to give their all. 

Setting Goals

Creating S.M.A.R.T goals provide young players with a purpose for playing the game with commitment, dedication, and hard work.

It’s important to develop short-term and long-term goals and focus on individual objectives for each team player to ensure they perform at their best. Collectively, this will make your team more cohesive and more aligned with the overall vision of the season. 

S.M.A.R.T means specific, measurable, achievable, attainable, realistic, and time-bound goals. For a midfielder, it may mean getting five assists by the end of the season. For a goalie, it may mean two clean sheets by the end of the season. For a striker, it could be four goals by the end of the season.

Whatever the goal is, we recommend planning this out with all your players so they work towards something throughout the course of the season. 

Technical Skills

As a coach, you want all your players to have good technical skills. Establishing technical skills early on will help players accelerate their development. Here are some practical and basic tips to help your players improve their passing, shooting, and dribbling abilities:


Passing is a fundamental skill that every player should master. Encourage your players to:

  • Keep their eyes up and scan the field to see where their teammates are positioned
  • Use the inside of their foot to pass the ball accurately and with enough power
  • Pass the ball to their teammate’s feet, not behind or in front of them
  • Communicate with their teammates before passing the ball

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Scoring goals is the ultimate objective of soccer, and shooting is a critical skill to achieve this. Help your players improve their shooting by:

  • Teaching them the proper shooting technique, which involves planting their non-kicking foot next to the ball, looking at the target, and following through with their kicking foot
  • Encouraging them to practice shooting with both feet
  • Teaching them to aim for the corners of the goal rather than the middle
  • Teach them to shoot off the dribble rather than always be stationary


Dribbling enables players to move the ball around the field while avoiding defenders. Here are some tips to help your players improve their dribbling skills:

  • Teach them to keep the ball close to their feet while dribbling
  • Encourage them to use both feet while dribbling
  • Teach them to change direction quickly and use body fakes to deceive defenders
  • Encourage them to practice dribbling in tight spaces to improve their close control

Tactical Skills

As a youth soccer coach, you must have a solid understanding of tactical skills. By teaching your players the right tactics, you can help them improve their performance on the field. Here are some important tactical skills to focus on:


One of the most important tactical skills in soccer is positioning. You need to teach your players how to position themselves on the field to maximize their effectiveness. For example, defenders need to know how to position themselves to stop attackers, while attackers need to know how to position themselves to create scoring opportunities.

Here are some tips for teaching positioning:

  • Teach your players about the different positions on the field and their roles in each position.
  • Show your players how to position themselves based on the position of the ball and their opponents.
  • Teach your players to communicate with each other to ensure everyone is in the right position.
  • Move players around so they get a feel for what it feels like to play different positions. 

Attacking Strategies

Another important tactical skill is attacking strategies. You need to teach your players how to work together to create scoring opportunities. Here are some tips for teaching attacking strategies:

  • Show your players how to create space on the field to receive passes.
  • Teach your players how to make runs to get behind the defense.
  • Show your players how to pass and move to create scoring opportunities.

Defensive Strategies

Finally, you need to teach your players how to defend effectively. This involves teaching them how to work together to stop the opposing team from scoring. Here are some tips for teaching defensive strategies:

  • Teach your players how to mark their opponents to prevent them from receiving passes.
  • Show your players how to work together to close down space and limit the opposing team’s options.
  • Teach your players how to communicate with each other to ensure everyone is defending effectively.

Physical Preparation

Physical preparation is essential for youth soccer players to perform at their best and prevent injuries. 


Before every practice and game, it’s important to have a proper warm-up to prepare the body for physical activity. A good warm-up should include:

  • 5-10 minutes of light jogging or dynamic stretching to increase heart rate and blood flow
  • Stretching major muscle groups such as quads, hamstrings, calves, and hip flexors
  • Drills that mimic game movements such as running, jumping, and kicking to activate the nervous system and improve coordination
  • Quick sets of Rondos


After practice or a game, it’s important to have a cool-down to help the body recover and prevent soreness. A good cool-down should include:

  • 5-10 minutes of light jogging or walking to gradually decrease heart rate and blood flow
  • Static stretching to improve flexibility and reduce muscle tension
  • Hydrating with water or a sports drink to replace fluids lost during physical activity

Fitness Training

Fitness training is important for youth soccer players to improve their endurance, agility, and strength. 

  • Focus on exercises that mimic game movements such as sprints, jumps, and lateral movements
  • Use bodyweight exercises such as push-ups, squats, and lunges to improve strength and endurance
  • Incorporate interval training to improve cardiovascular endurance and simulate game conditions
  • Gradually increase the intensity and duration of fitness training to prevent injuries and improve performance

Mental Preparation

As a coach, you know that success in soccer is not just about physical ability. Mental preparation is equally important and can make all the difference in a game. Here is some sage advice about getting players mentally prepared to play soccer. 


One of the keys to success in soccer is being able to maintain focus throughout the game. Encourage your players to develop a pre-game routine that helps them get into the right mindset. This might include visualization exercises, deep breathing, or listening to music.

During the game, remind your players to stay focused on the task at hand and avoid getting distracted by things like the score or the crowd. If you feel like a player is getting easily distracted, remind them to focus on the game. If they don’t, casually sub them out and have a positive discussion with them on the sidelines. 


Help your players build confidence by setting achievable goals and praising them for their successes. Encourage them to focus on their strengths rather than their weaknesses, and remind them that mistakes are a natural part of the learning process. Even professionals continue to make mistake after mistake but they use it as a learning experience. 

A confident player is more likely to take risks and make bold moves on the field.

Be aware that some parents do a good job of deflating a child’s confidence. If this is the case, do your best to build them back up on the soccer field. 

Mental Toughness

Mental toughness is the ability to perform under pressure and bounce back from setbacks.

Encourage your players to develop mental toughness by practicing resilience and perseverance. Help them develop a growth mindset that values effort and learning over natural talent.

By helping your players develop strong mental preparation skills, you can set them up for success both on and off the field. With focus, confidence, and mental toughness, they’ll be ready to take on any challenge that comes their way! 

Make Practice Fun

One of the most important things you can do as a youth coach is to make practice FUN. Practices that are fun, positive, and full of energy, enable kids to grow in their sport. They are more attentive and proactively want to give their all during practice. Here are a few tips to help you make your practices more enjoyable:

  • Plan your practices: Make sure you have a clear plan for each practice, including drills and games that are both challenging and fun.
  • Avoid standing in lines: Waiting in line can be boring and frustrating for young players. Try to design drills that keep everyone moving and engaged.
  • Keep explanations short and sweet: Kids have short attention spans, so keep your instructions brief and to the point.
  • Lots of praise: Encourage your players with positive feedback and praise. This will help build their confidence and keep them motivated.

Another way to make practices fun is by incorporating games into your training sessions. Here are a few ideas:

Sharks and Minnows – a classic! 
One player (the shark) tries to tag the other players (the minnows) as they run from one end of the field to the other. If a minnow is tagged, they become a shark.

For the first few times, don’t use a soccer ball. The kids just run. Then, start introducing dribbling and tackling into the game

Passing Relay
Divide your players into two teams. Each team lines up behind a cone. The first player in each line passes the ball to the next player, who then passes it back. The first team to complete the relay wins.

World Cup
Divide your players into teams and have them compete in a mini-tournament. Each team represents a different country and wears that country’s colors. This is a great way to build team spirit and get your players excited about soccer.

By making your practices fun and engaging, you can help your young players develop a love for the game that will stay with them for years to come.

Allow Kids to Learn by Doing

One of the most effective ways to teach children soccer is to allow them to learn by doing. This means that you should create a practice environment that encourages experimentation and allows players to make mistakes without fear of punishment or criticism. When players are allowed to learn by doing, they have the opportunity to develop their skills and gain confidence in their abilities.

One way to encourage learning by doing is to create small-sided games that allow players to practice different skills in a game-like setting. For example, you can set up a 3v3 game that focuses on passing and receiving or a 2v2 game that focuses on dribbling and shooting. By playing these games, players can learn how to apply the skills they have learned in practice to a real game situation.

Understanding and learning about accountability are very beneficial. Let players own up to their mistakes and move on. One way to teach them is to model it for them. If you, as a coach, make a mistake…let them know it was ‘your bad’.

Level-set with Parents

Soccer parents can be the worst. I’ve seen it firsthand over the years. Almost every parent thinks their child is the next Messi.

When coaching youth soccer, it’s important to establish a positive relationship with the parents of your players. Here are some ways to do it…

  • Communicate your philosophy and team goals with parents early on in the season. This will help set expectations and ensure everyone is on the same page. Set the expectations after one of the first practices. Huddle the parents up quickly and talk to them without the players being there. 
  • Encourage parents to get involved and volunteer in any way they can. This can help build a sense of community and support for your team. Almost every team needs a Manager, right?
  • Be open to feedback and suggestions from parents, but also be clear about your role as the coach and the decisions you make for the team.
  • Establish clear communication channels with parents, such as email, phone, or team messaging apps. Make sure parents know how and when to reach you if they have any questions or concerns.

Remember, parents can be a valuable resource for your team, so it’s important to establish a positive relationship with them from the start. By level-setting with parents, you can create a supportive environment for your players and set your team up for success.

Final Thoughts

Coaching youth soccer can be very enjoyable. The best part of being a coach is the impact you can have on a child’s season and life. 

Yes, winning and losing sometimes matter. Let’s be honest, it feels good to win and it feels pretty sucky to lose. But, try to prioritize having fun and development over anything else. 

By following these tips, coaches can create a positive and fun environment for their players to develop their skills and love for the game.

Remember to focus on the fundamentals first. With these strategies in mind, coaches can help their young players grow and succeed both on and off the field!

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the most important thing to remember when coaching youth soccer?

Preparation is key. Preparing your practices before you step on the field allows you to focus on what you want to work on. It’s also important to keep everyone involved and make it fun!

Do I need a soccer coaching license?

The requirements for coaching soccer can vary depending on your location and the level of coaching you plan to do. There are usually no license requirements for your town rec or travel program. However, many private soccer clubs do require coaching licenses. You can learn more here.

Is coaching youth soccer worth it?

Yes! If you haven’t coached before, this will get you out of your comfort zone. When coaching youth sports, you’ll make an impact on players and work on a common goal. You can mold the environment and create a positive experience for kids to hopefully pursue further. It is very fulfilling to see kid’s I’ve coached 7 years ago still playing.

Beau Bridges - Soccer Novo Hey 👋 I’m Beau. A proud Dad, former coach and soccer enthusiast. I continue to love the game of soccer today the same way I did when I was 7. I created to share what I know about the game as well as provide a platform so other parents can learn more about youth soccer in the U.S.

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